When you're in a relationship, your behavior, mood, and even happiness can all depend on the other person in the relationship. It's sad but lets face it, it's true. It's almost as if your mentality and mood is all in their hands. They have more control over your emotions than they are aware of... but it's not a bad thing!!
Right? Think about it....
If you and your boo just got in a fight, your day is shot. You're moody, emotional, have the random need to go on a run to de-stress, happy couples make you sick (admit it), you find yourself irritable about the most insignificant things, appetite is altered, "What's wrong? You look sad." "Joe and I just got in a fight...."If you and your boo are on cloud 9, love songs make sense to you now, you have a new appreciation for the little things in life, you are now eager to change the world in some significant way, you find yourself eager to give a dollar to the homeless person on the side of the road, you're happy, you laugh more, you want to dress and look better, you are inspired to write a song, you think of baby girl names to match his last name, etc.
Nothing is wrong with the fact that your relationship can affect your daily life as much as it does. It is what it is and that's just how it goes. A relationship is such a significant part of your life as it should be. You are sharing something with someone that you truly care about and they about you. How can that not affect your emotions and perspective on life? It's crazy..... and beautiful..... and scary all at the same time.
Just thought it was an interesting observation since I myself have found myself feeling those ways when I was in my few relationships. Interesting, eh?
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